Yeah, so I saw Kim after I finished a wack of deliveries for the WP. She had her hair down, and I almost didn’t recognize her. Anyway, I started talking to her, and we had our awkward silence moments, but it was the first time I wasn’t feeling nervous around a girl who I was planning to ask out. Anyway, I guess I kinda asked her out. It went like:
Me: What are you doing on Sunday?
Kim: Nothing.
Me: Maybe we could get together and do something.
Kim: Sure, that’d be great.
Then, she gave me her phone number. WHOO!! (Nic Kleyh style) (which NEVER goes out of style :P)
She smokes and drinks, though. If she becomes my girlfriend, I hope I can kick her out of that habit.
Things are good. So good, in fact, that I’m almost worried about the bad stuff that’s coming up to offset the good. But, that’s life, and I won’t dwell on it for long. If I accept some of the bad right now to keep that balance, then things won’t be that bad afterwards.
I can dream, can’t I? ^_~
Glad you got some chick’s number – but a word of advice… don’t try and change her. That’s unfair of you to do that. If you don’t like her the way she is now, then date someone else. If you are trying to change her to suit you, then it’s not fair to her. Let her do what she wants .. if it bothers you, you’ll either have to date someone else, or put up with it! :P Otherwise.. gambatte, ne?
*huge ass hugs* WTG! *giggles*
Holy crap, you’re right… I completely overlooked that. Guess I’ve been out of the dating game for a loooooong time… hahahaha.
Just tryin’ to help ya from a girl’s perspective.. in general, people hate to change, and they don’t like it when people tell them to .. trust me.. like a guy I used to know said to me, “You COULD be beautiful if you lost some weight.” Needless to say, he was pretty much kicked to the curb right away. Everyone else thought he was a bastard. :P Suggesting that if I changed, it would be better for him. HAH!
Hahahaha, yeah, that scores major zero points there. I mean, I’m not that much in the know, but THAT was an obvious blunder.
The only thing I’m worried about is having to change because of Kim… I think she might be expecting me to party with her (and her friends) at the bar, but I don’t like to do the bar thing… it doesn’t mean I won’t try it out, but I’ll see what happens on Sunday. Maybe she’ll get a glimpse of my world before I get sucked into hers? Hahaha.
Hehehe, thanks! I really like being more bolder than awkward. I guess you gotta just put yourself out there for things to happen. I never used to do that, but I’m sure gonna start doing it now!
*laughs and hugs tight* i wish you luck doll!